The Real Journey

One of the best things about life is that there are no rules about what you can and can’t do.

Can’t get out of bed? Then don’t. Just do the things you need to do IN bed. Who says you have to be sitting in a chair in order to do your homework or get started on work?

Sick of eating breakfast in the morning? Who says you have to eat “breakfast food”? Make a sandwich, eat some pizza, have some spaghetti.

Hate showering because you don’t like seeing yourself naked? Shower with the lights off.

Life is literally whatever you want it to be, and you do not have to EVER listen to your “Shoulds” that pop up all the time. Just take a look at what you need and make it work with what you have to do.

Similarly, who says a blog post has to be pages and pages long? I can publish a blogpost this short, that is TOTALLY fine. Reality is what you make it, there are no rules.

That is strangely motivating. I’m going to get up and eat breakfast now. Go rational thinking!

…….

I have more to say, turns out.

When you are ready to improve and ready for change, then you have the power and capacity to do so.

As you wake up, you will hit a point where you are awake. That is the time to get out of bed. You don’t feel like you CAN’T anymore, so it’s time to move.

That improvement will come slowly at times, but it is important to follow through on.

This probably doesn’t make any sense, but whatever. I’m too tired to make much sense of it anyways. Maybe I’ll try again later. Because there’s nothing that says I CAN’T publish a draft of something I literally wrote without any proofreading.

You do you!

The Productive Journey

The key to being productive is to say to yourself “all I have to do right now is…”

A few years ago, I served a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It was a SUPER cool experience, and it taught me hundreds of things, including how to serve those around me and that everyone is a child of God.

You may know what missionaries do (some knock on doors, some pray for you, and some teach you and your family about God, Jesus Christ, and the Book of Mormon),  but you PROBABLY don’t know what they do when they’re at home in their apartment.

I’m getting to an important, relatable point, I promise.

Every morning, during their scripture study, missionaries read out of a book called “Adjusting to Missionary Life.” That book was a lifesaver to me countless times! It taught me ways of managing stress, how to better develop relationships with others… Basically, it taught me how to make sure I was taking care of myself generally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, and socially.

The link is here: Adjusting to Missionary Life

I remember LOVING this book, and we would study it every morning to get ideas on how to be more productive, get along better, not be as homesick, etc.

I think Adjusting to Missionary Life would be better called “Adjusting to Adult Life,” and I think EVERYONE should read it. (Obviously it talks about missionaries, but you can easily relate it to your own life and just read the parts that are applicable to you.)

I promise this post isn’t ONLY about Adjusting. I just bring it up because it taught me two VERY valuable lessons that I forgot about until now, and one of these lessons are about being productive.

See, I had fallen into a productive-slump, if you will. I wanted to get up and exercise every day, I wanted to do my homework without complaint, I wanted to be a more effective employee, but I just couldn’t get myself to do it.

So I read an article (found here) on Pocket, a REALLY awesome app that I recommend, about how to beat this slump.

One guy said to break your initial task into a small, 2 minute task, like if you want to go running, start with putting on your shoes. It is obviously a task that you HAVE to do in order to run (unless you’re one of those weird barefoot runners), and it only takes about 2 minutes.

Putting on your shoes is easy, right? So the idea is if you put on your shoes, you’ll probably follow that action up with going outside, then going for a run. Objects in motion stay in motion. (Thanks Newton!)

Adjusting to Missionary Life, all those missionary years ago, taught us “all I have to do right now is…”. It actually says it in three different parts of the book! It says it under “managing a stress emergency,” “pace yourself,” and “break your work into small pieces and take on only one task at a time.”

To be honest, I had completely forgotten about Adjusting until this morning. I had read this article, I was like “yeah, that’s a great idea, I’m going to do that to get up by my alarm tomorrow morning.”

And then the morning rolled around, I thought “All I have to do right now is go to the bathroom,” (to get myself to get out of bed) and then I had a realization the entire time I was on the toilet, the whole time I made my morning Calm (magnesium drink, lowers stress),  and up until I started up my computer and started writing.

So there you have it! The key to being productive (if you have a hard time getting started or staying on task) is to say to yourself “all I have to do right now is…”

Lifechanging, right?

Now all I have to do right now is publish this blog post.

The Procrastinator’s Journey

Ok so here’s the deal. I was sitting down about 20 minutes ago to work on my homework. I don’t have a lot, just a few quizzes to show I read the material and some short reflections. It would probably take me about 1.5 hours to finish everything. Aaaaaand here I am now, writing a post about procrastinating. Like, what the heck?

What is it about tasks that makes us want to procrastinate?

I seriously have no idea. But here I am, watching my husband play Forza Horizon 4 instead of working on my homework. I’m not even that interesting in driving games! I’m much more of a open-world Elder Scrolls type of girl.

I even gave a speech on motivation two semesters ago, and I talked all about procrastination and how to overcome it. Is it bad that I don’t remember the tips I gave?

I wonder if one day I’ll be able to kick this procrastination in the pants. But for now, I guess I’m going to have to buckle down and do it. Here come’s operation grab my laptop, notebook, and pen and go into the bedroom  and close the door until my homework is done.

But my husband is playing a stunt-driver task in a Bughatti… (I don’t even know how to spell Bugati. I’ll ask him. OH! Bugatti. That’s what the game said.) Yep, now I’m watching him complete this quest.

Ok, so that was really cool. Right, Kaylie. Homework.

Aaaaand GO!

The Meaningful Journey

There’s a reason I named this blog “The ________ Journey.”

Every moment brings something different. Trying to come up with a catch-all title is VERY difficult, if you’ve never tried it. Nothing I tried seemed to fit. Until I tried The Unnamed Journey. That rang a bell. But then, so did The Pink Journey! And The Nail-Destroying Journey. And just about any other descriptive word I put in there. Then I started thinking, why give my blog ONE name at all? I mean, sure, the purpose of this blog is a brain dump, a way to write out my thoughts. So why not write it with a new title every time? Isn’t that more… meaningful?

Hello! My name is Kaylie Johnson. I am a 22 year old recently married college student who’s a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. My aspirations for this site is to share my life with whoever’s interested.

And I mean, with this kind of journey, who wouldn’t be?

See you out there!